Romancing a Japanese young lady on a subway in Japan
Tomome and Igor
It was really weird! I got tired hanging out on Friend Feed and decided to go out for a drink or somethings. I got on a subway! I have this crazy habit to try to pick up girls on the train. It rarely works but you get to talk to nice girls. I actually met my wife this way in NYC West 4th street station!
But in Japan is really hard because Japanese women are shy to strangers. Well honestly I never met anyone on a train in Japan. Well yes I met a few girls and got their email and phone numbers but never actually went out for a date! It is kind of strange why a woman gives a man her contact details but never meets that person later.
Anyway so tonight I am taking this train and looking for a nice girl to strike a conversation with. The thing is with Japanese women, you as a foreigner try to speak in Japanese to them, it is a turn off! They like to practice their English!. Well I tried with a few but no dice! So I resolved to just sit down, and di it right opposite with a pretty young woman.
The young lady was in a sweet slumber sleeping lightly! Japanese people often sleep on the subway even if it is a short ride like 30 minutes. They just work too hard. So I decided to do an artistic video of the girl, because she looked so shy and sweet in her sleep. I recorded a 2 minute video of her. By the time I finished recording she awoke. I just said “sleepy” and we started talking. Well I guess a few words. I came over to sit next to her.
So I kept talking to her in English as the train kept going. I intentionally missed the station I was going to and continued on the train with her. As we got to her station I said let’s exchange phone numbers and emails. She agreed. Trying to spend a little time with her, I said oh, I want to smoke a cigarette so let’s go outside the station. We did!
When we were on a train I asked her if she would like to have a coffee with me but she said no! Once outside at her station, I said let’s go to MacDonald’s and have coffee! Shae said yes! 
I set at MacDonald’s for a while and I was telling her about my life. My work on the Internet and my travels. I showed her some travel photos that I have on my phone from the last trip to Europe!
The thing was I could not smoke at MacDonald’s so after about 10 minutes we went outside and set down on the building steps by the entrance. MacDonald’s smoking policy is really weired. Cannot smoke from 12 midnight to 3 am! do not ask me why! Anyway sitting on the doorsteps we kept talking for about an hour. We exchanged our phone numbers and emails and took pictures of each other for the phone profile.
I offered to walk her to her house and she agreed. I walked her to the building where she lives and we said our goodbyes. I even kissed her goodnight on her cheek! I was a true gentleman! After we departed I emailed a picture of me in Morocco that I took when I went on a Camel ride in the desert dunes. A little later she replied with thank you and good night!
I met my new friend Tomome a few times for dinner and drinks. Every date she would get colder and colder towards me! I guess I did not fit into her predisposed agenda of the marrying type!
It is much easier to seduce a Japanese woman with a sexual encountering when you first meet them, than to try to get to know them through romance. While sexual seduction is enjoyable there is something missing there, because the feeling is fleeting!
Tags: japan, sexuality, society, women
November 20th, 2008 at 1:31 am
Tomome is cute…maybe it was the camel that turned her off, not you (-*
November 20th, 2008 at 1:37 am
Yeah I liked the girl. She is sweet, but a bit too serious.
The are two types of Japanese girls, the crazy ones and the serious ones.
The serious ones want a marriage and stuff. the crazy ones just want to have fun. But must of the Japanese girls are serious, even if they dress and act funky!
Yeah must be the camels that did it. I did not have enough camels to woo her!